Friends, family, listeners and those bold enough to be here -
Writing to you from within our holidaysâTamatha enjoying a dream trip to Greece with her husband, John, and daughter, Harper, and Chelsea hosting her family in Denver. As we reflect on this special time, weâre thinking of you and yours.
However youâre spending this seasonâhonoring gratitude, questioning traditions, gathering with loved ones, or simply restingâwe want to offer a meaningful way to connect with those who matter most during these precious shared moments.
Re- Introducing: 40 Living Questions
This holiday season, weâre sharing a free, downloadable resource: 40 Living Questions to Ask Your Loved Ones
These questions are designed to help you create deeper, richer connections with family, friends, and loved ones while theyâre aliveâso youâre not left wondering.
The practice is an ode to the power of having end-of-life conversations, now; to legacy building, together; to spiritual growth through death awareness (and as such, death positivity); to mindful living, mindful dying and mindful living on; to embracing mortality, collectively; to life and legacy planning, wishes first.
Why Use the 40 Living Questions?
Using these questions has been transformative for us. Theyâve helped us deepen relationships with our loved ones, particularly those who may not contemplate mortality as often as we do.
This resource is crafted with love and intention, offering a way to:
Understand parents, in-laws, and elders beyond surface-level knowledge.
Share more of who you are, too.
Create shared memories by moving beyond usual conversations to explore history, values, and essence.
Weâve been amazed by how much fun and how easy these questions make it to connect meaningfully.
How to Use the 40 Living Questions
The packet is thoughtfully broken into sections:
Growing Up
Reflections from Adulthood
Relationships
Parenting and Career (if applicable); and
Honoring You and You in the World
Pro Tips:
Keep the document handy on your phone for spontaneous dinner table conversations.
Print a copy for planned gatherings or moments when you have extra time to connect.
Move through the questions in a way that feels rightâwhether all at once or one question at a time.
This resource is designed for your way of doing things. The most important rule: Do you!
Download the 40 Living Questions
Feel free to share this link with others who would enjoy it. The more connections we can inspire, the better.
Make It Even Richer
đ§ Check out the companion podcast episode to hear us model this exercise and show how these questions can lead to profound and heartfelt conversations.
Wishing You a Season of Living Legacy
We hope you enjoy exploring the 40 Living Questions with your loved ones this holiday season. Thank you for allowing us to hold the door open for deeper connections and meaningful conversations.
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With gratitude for NOW,
Tamatha and Chelsea